Instead of taking a grown, accomplished woman at her word, Beyoncé got judged.
When Beyoncé projected the word behind her at the 2014 MTV Awards, the ensuing discussion was not about how awesome the musician was, but about how good she was at being a feminist. Nods and applause from the audience, who are clearly enjoying both her confessions and her analysis.įact is, too many women are afraid to be known as feminists. So what’s the rub? “The problem is that our society is set up to make women economically vulnerable” when they make that kind of decision. If a woman chooses to stay home to watch her children, I support that too,” she continues. “If a woman wants to take her husband’s name, that is her choice and it is not my place to judge.
“Women are equal to men we have the right to move through the world as we choose, to be free from harassment or violence we have the right to easy, affordable access to birth control we have the right to make choices about our bodies, free from legislative oversight we have the right to respect.” “I hold certain truths to be self-evident,” she says passionately. That feminism has become “an f word, and not a nice word.” That this is itself a problem. That, in fact, the word “feminist” has become an accusation. She likes listening to thuggish rap with vilely misogynistic lyrics - at loud volume! She considers certain domestic tasks, bug killing, vehicle maintenance to be a man’s work! She really likes the color pink! She enjoys fashion magazines! She was clearly doing feminism all wrong!īut when Gay thought about it some more, she realized that this was a deeply complex situation. After all, she thought, real feminists were “angry, hairy, man-hating, sex-hating women” - and she wasn’t one of them. Turns out, it was a label she gave herself, almost as a personal joke. She takes the TEDWomen stage to tell us how she became known as a bad feminist.
“I have passionate opinions about gender equality,” says writer Roxane Gay.
Roxane Gay brings the house down at TEDWomen with a wonderful reflection on what it means to be a feminist.